It is extraordinary to realize that we are all made up of ‘pieces of an intricate puzzle’ – as wild and crazy as that sounds let me break it down further. The various pieces are made up of our environment, religion, racial and tribal orientation, social and educational, traditional and cultural, blood group, sun and […]
I am amazed that people I know wish to be the same in their 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, and so on. How can we be the same? These are different stages and phases of life and the denial that we are changing gives many a lot of grief. Being healthy and looking good is one […]
The eyes that are the most receptive of our senses have an impact on the myriad of ‘I’s’ we create within our identity! What does this mean? As sight is the most proficient of our senses, through observation and absorption we create our inner world and the way we play out the many roles we […]
When we live by a checklist, goals, objectives etc…we are constantly striving and wanting. What this means subconsciously is that we are not ever ‘enough’ or ‘accepting’ of who we are. The world is based on how do you prove you are worthy of your life? That’s really the most limiting way to live. A […]
Dive deeper instead of living on the surface! Why is this important? At this time the evolution of our planet and ourselves is at stake. Unless each of us decide its time to clean up our generational, cultural, religious, social, economical, racial and gender baggage we will keep multiplying this garbage to all those around […]
Honor is the foundation of authentic living. When we hold ourselves in honor of this short and transient life it means we choose to live authentically. Without honor and self-respect we have no dignity or appreciation of our existence. Honor is a value that floers into integrity and responsibility to oneself and the world at […]
Dignity is the pillar that holds up self-respect. We seem to be grappling with these 2 very important value due to many reasons. Comparison, social media, wanting to be like others, wanting acceptance and approval from others totally damages our personal dignity and self-respect. We are each a unique being that has come to this […]
Most people avoid having tough ‘real’ conversations as they are scared of the outcome. Scared of rejection, being rebuked, been told they are wrong, abandoned, etc. When we are capable of confronting what is affecting us by basing it on actual facts and not hearsay or assumptions then we have the potential to resolve issues. […]
Men need to embrace their ‘Feminine Principle’ – what does this mean? Every man and woman has both feminine and masculine principles. The Yin/Yang, specifically the Yin, is feminine and caters to our creativity, spontaneity, nourishing, and nurturing aspects. The Yang is masculine as it is logical, analytical, goal-setting, and achieving part. As we live […]
Our lives are a movie. All the experiences in our minds are like the movie reel, our eyes are the projector and the world is the screen. It also works the other way around where the world is the movie, our eyes are the projector, and our minds become the movie reel. Which way do you prefer it to be? Not only that we keep RE-playing the same script in our heads…