Dear Fellow Life Traveller, In the last decade or more life’s challenges have exceeded human understanding! As we traverse through slippery twisty and challenging pathways we realize so much is going on inside out and outside in. We are all facing challenges in a more magnified way during and post-COVID. The world we know is disappearing […]
Dear Fellow Life Traveller, Is what one is experiencing a real ‘heartbreak’ or is it a ‘V-break or P-break’? This has come up in so many discussions with my clients. Is it true that we fall in love? ‘Falling’ already raises an issue as it connotes we will be hurt. When 2 people meet the […]
Dear Fellow Life Traveller, So often we hear, you have so much ‘potential’! Or I have clients saying “I don’t know how to reach, use, live, or find my full potential! While in session with a client this showed up so strongly that there was a deep AHA moment. Each time we speak about ‘potential’ we seem […]
Dear Fellow Life Traveller, Are you becoming confrontationally friendly? Hmmmm one would say? What do you mean Tazim? Can those 2 words really go hand in hand? Yes, they do! One of the main reasons people come to therapy is that they cannot confront many aspects of their lives or people they have conflicts with. Rather […]
Dear Fellow Life Traveller,Is it better to live your life keeping your mouth shut or would it be better to confront issues? It is clear that nothing goes anywhere or we cannot ‘let go’ of stuff as all experiences are part of us. We can ignore, avoid, bury, pretend or just forget about what we think […]
Dear Fellow Life Traveller, Wow…so we have arrived at Gen Z! What does this mean? Today’s children are made from different stuff. What do I mean? They have a completely different way of computing and perceiving plus a different way to output as well. I realized it’s a whole different way of communicating and that’s not […]
Dear Fellow Life Traveller,As time moves forward, many stay the same and prefer not to move with the times. No matter what field we look at, there are those who would be willing to shift and change and those who will keep doing what has always been done. Surprise dear ones….we do not have much […]
Dear Fellow Life Traveller, I have had countless conversations about intimate relationships and it is incredible how many are still stuck on the old script. Unless one has a partner one still invalidates oneself. It’s high time we accept that the world is made up of a colorful range of options and choices. As we approach […]
Dear Fellow Life Traveller, See it for what it is…most people are stuck as ‘prisoners within a cage of their past’! To think that with all the evolution that has been ongoing, this is the most challenging and unrefutable fact! Mental Health challenges have reached heights that are unfathomable. During and post covid the 2 most […]
Dear Fellow Life Traveller, Wait before you speak about weight! Just like perfection which does not exist neither does this notion of the right weight. There are far too many factors from location, body type, ancestry, ethnic food, genes, height, and racial/continetal definition to name a few aspects. Went for lunch with a friend and a very […]