Dear Fellow Life Traveller, Where are you operating from? Emotional expectations have been the demise of many a relationship. Added to totally unrealistic expectations takes it a notch higher. How many have been experiencing this in their lives? I have and I can assure you it leaves one feeling quite exhausted and confused. Let me clarify. I am not talking about having standards and expecting delivery and performance for what one is paying for. I am referring to emotional expectations!Every single type of relationship is being challenged. Things happen that one did not even anticipate and it comes out from nowhere. Communication is zigzaging, understanding or coming to a middle ground is like a mirage that disappears just when you think you have the answer. Expectations of others don’t make sense at all…and lastly, the blame that comes with these scenarios is heartbreaking and hurtful.Like I said, we are in turbulent times and this gunk that’s rising to the surface is not a joke. How do we handle this turbulence? Firstly, it is essential to examine whether there is some way of resolving.The only way to deal with any situation is to discuss it from the present stance. The only thing anyone can do with the past is to heal it!!! Which means finding a therapist and working through one’s own baggage to stop the projections. Secondly, be clear that blame will not resolve anything. Lastly, know that due to Karmic situations, things could get very heavy and painful, and requires deep healing.We are living in very ephemeral times….nothing is permanent!

“We are living in very ephemeral times….nothing is permanent!”

EXPECTATIONSEmotional expectations can leave relationships exhausted and confused.PRESENT STANCEDiscuss what is happening now; the past can only be healed.WITHOUT BLAMEBlame will not resolve anything.