Dear Fellow Life Traveller,
Venting and complaining never did solve any problems! I know of people who complain for decades and don’t take responsibility for their lives. They are not in my life as I cannot and do not have the capacity to listen year in and out. I ask someone 3 times what they will do about their issue and if they are not willing to find solutions then I mostly disengage. We have 1 life and its so important to figure out how each 24 hours are to be spent. I know its a tough one to accept.
When a person is sick thats another story as thats not complaining, its a fact.
I understand if one does not have the possibility to find solutions due to finances or situations out of their control. Then I request they consider who or how they can be helped and how they could be creative about a solution. Within EVERY problem lies a solution, one has to be open enough to see it!
I have seen so many clients shift their perspective after they do therapy and create amazing lives and new ways to live that are so incredible that they have really helped me know and believe that anything is possible.
Complaining and venting will not solve one’s situation. Taking responsibility and considering what options one has is a way to change a situation. Complaining has become a bad habit and we need to call out this behavior. Allowing one to take up time, space, and frequency in listening to what has no benefit helps feed more darkness.
Next time someone does this for the 9th or 19th time… what will you do?
The therapeutic self-discovery journey with me is a deep, intense, challenging and fulfilling undertaking! No shortcuts and no blah. Are you ready to start this profound inner journey?
Disrupt your life and find a New way!