Who is really REAL? I meet people who are living under or behind countless pretentious ‘masks’. How do we cut through layers and layers of conditioning to figure out who is real? Why are people afraid to show their real self? Fear of rejection, being disliked, not being approved of, alienation, not being part of a group/s dynamic, or even more importantly, having to face themselves in the mirror!
We have been told NOT to be ourselves. That we are better being someone people expect us to be and that no-one will like us if we show our defiant, bold and authentic selves.
I made a choice to keep working inwardly so that I could show up authentically outwardly. It has not been an easy journey by ANY means. Every so often I falter, trip, fall however my resilience HELPS me pick myself up, dust off and keep moving with tears streaming down my face, a grubby nose and sometimes wanting to punch a hole in a wall. None of those will help long term as its about me figuring out what is important and what really matters…
The fact is I will make mistakes, stumble, fall as that is life’s path. Compromising myself is not an option. All the pretentious masks are not worthwhile as being human and allowing myself to experience life as I wish rather than ‘fitting in’ or wishing that I could be someone else is not an option!
When we accept that we are each a mix and we will screw up, make unhealthy choices, piss people off, and so on. The most important aspect is we have the choice to say and be who we choose over what we are expected to be… we can create new narratives that are life-changing…
We can raise our awareness and consciousness, learn to meditate,
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The therapeutic self-discovery journey with me is a challenging, deep, intense and fulfilling undertaking! No shortcuts and no blah. Are you ready to start this profound inner journey?
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