In the middle of a session the most profound realization came through for a client. She had become a Victim’s victim – a double whammy which caused her twice the pain and suffering.
How did this show up? As it happens oftentimes….as children we take on stories from/of adults as we do not know the full facts or we only know what our little personalities perceive or we have so much love for one party and wish to protect that person against another.
This is a common theme where there is some level of abuse, misuse and confusion.
Children do not know how to define right from wrong or good from bad as that takes time as they grow.
We are each carrying carrying this generational baggage passed down for years. Even when we have all we need and more we feel like Victims and feeling a double Victim is even more devastating and NOTHING IS ENOUGH!
Do not lose yourself in someone else’s story…deal and heal your own as that is your entire responsibility!
Tazim Elkington – The Indian Black Butterfly on Parenting – 2017
To heal, one must invest in one’s own life process by deciding that there is more to life than this. The process is transformational and liberating! No Better time than NOW to do the inner work! Disrupt your life and find your peace and joy!