Dear Fellow Life Traveller,
Since the majority of the world has not been parented the way we would want, this is our world narrative!
What and how is the best parenting? Seriously, we are all delusional as there is absolutely no perfect way to parent and neither is there a perfect parent. The word ‘perfect’ makes me want to throw up! Each individual is so different that any manual would not work.
When life goes sideways and it does not turn out the way we anticipated, the better route to take is to firstly go for an intensive therapy process. Next start the self-parenting process. No one knows you better than yourself and all those hidden caves inside are ready to unfold.
As you discover yourself, you also discover parts of your mother/father within yourself and your grandparents if you knew them as you start to discover some family rhythms and patterns.
The person that has the courage to change some of the unhealthy patterns and rhythms in a family always gets to be the person who ends up in the limelight. This is because that person has the courage to change the flow. Blaming this person is the easiest as these are the so-called ‘black sheep’ of the family. Yet they are the tide-turners who had to dig the deepest and encounter huge challenges to become who they are.
These are the way-showers shaking many who do not wish to follow suit. When you learn to self-parent and take the blame game out of the equation…life becomes different I assure you!
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The therapeutic self-discovery journey with me is a challenging, deep, intense and fulfilling undertaking! No shortcuts and no blah. Are you ready to start this profound inner journey?
Disrupt your life and find your peace and joy!