Dear Fellow Life Traveller,
Mistakes are considered catastrophes in our world. Being human means we will make mistakes and screw up and mess up. This is not avoidable nor does it make sense to think that we know everything and we are incapable of making mistakes. Even someone with a double PHD will make mistakes so this notion of thinking we ‘know it all’ is ludicrous!
Unfortunately we carry mistakes to our death bed! For example, one gets married to have a lifelong association and partnership with another. Instead the reality is we have a 60% divorce rate currently and the relationships go sideways. Another example is, one studies a certain subject to pursue a passion and it does not work and they have to change their career path. Are these mistakes? No these are not mistakes. At the time of making a decision it was the right decision however as time passes things change and we need to be adaptable and adjustable.
A real mistake is when one does not know. Once a mistake is made unknowingly then one cannot repeat it as it is no longer a mistake since you know after the 1st time. That’s the definition of a mistake. When one repeats a mistake, one cannot expect to get away with it. For example, a person who has lied and cheated to a partner created hurtful consequences and then repeats it over and over again and keeps apologizing. That is no longer a mistake, that is dishonest behavior and unacceptable.
The therapeutic self-discovery journey with me is a challenging, deep, intense and fulfilling undertaking! No shortcuts and no blah. Are you ready to start this profound inner journey?
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