Dear Fellow Life Traveller,
Mistakes are considered real catastrophes in our world. Being human means we will make mistakes and screw up and mess up. This is not avoidable nor does it make sense to think that we know everything and we are incapable of mistakes. Even with a double PHD you will make mistakes as that is the human condition.
However, the whole point of what a person considers a mistake generally is based on outcomes not happening as one anticipated. For example, one gets married to have a lifelong association with another however we know that with 50% divorce rates this could go sideways. Another example is one studies a certain subject to pursue a passion and it does not happen and they have to change their career path. Are these mistakes? No these are not mistakes. At the time of making a decision it was the right decision however as time passes things change and we need to be adaptable.
A mistake is when one does not know. Once a mistake is made unknowingly then one cannot repeat it as it is no longer a mistake since you know after the 1st time. That’s the definition of a mistake. Hence the reason when one makes a mistake, one cannot repeat it and expect to get away with it. For example, a person who has lied to a partner created hurtful consequences and then repeats it over and over again and keeps apologizing. That is no longer a mistake, that is dishonest behavior and ought not to be accepted.
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Thank you for reading. May you have an adventurous 2023 filled with all the colors of a rainbow!