Dear Fellow Life Traveller,
Let’s look at the ‘N’ word which is now trending heavily in healing spaces. Narcissism or Narcissist is now buzzing like crazy all over the place.
Yes this behaviour is a real deep-seated issue. There’s one part that we are missing out on and that is the fact that practically every single human being is programmed with an inherent selfish component. This is based on survival and primal coding within ourselves.
So when we look at who a real narcissist is, it is a person who has tipped the scale beyond the inherent conditioning and has a higher percentage, behavior, and attitude that the world revolves around them and them ONLY. Things MUST happen as they wish. All families carry dysfunctionalities and children pick up aspects from their parents, families, environment, teachers etc and create coping and defense mechanisms to deal with life and the world. The nastiest narcissist is operating from deep unresolved fear, pain, hurt, etc. This is the damage playing out and they have convinced themselves they are right and nothing and no-one can change that.
In case you have an excessive Narcissist – do the self work as it will destroy you and your relationships!
The therapeutic self-discovery journey with me is a challenging, deep, intense and fulfilling undertaking! No shortcuts and no blah. Are you ready to start this profound inner journey?
Disrupt your life and find your peace and joy!