Dear Fellow Life Traveller,
Is what one is experiencing a real ‘heartbreak’ or is it a ‘V-break or P-break’? This has come up in so many discussions with my clients.
Is it true that we fall in love? ‘Falling’ already raises an issue as it connotes we will be hurt. When 2 people meet the first call of attraction is physical/chemistry which mostly leads to the V and P coitus! I am speaking about the 2 genders only and not the non-binary aspects for now. Sex is a hook and either one party or both feel they are in love. This is not love. This is infatuation or lust or a hook-up. So after 2 weeks/2 months or 6 months things dont go anywhere its not a heart-break! Its really a V or P break. Its important to know the difference as there’s a physical aspect and this is not emotional or tied to the heart.
I am getting literal about this so one is able to see the difference…
It takes years to get to know a person and feel deeply and allow the physical attraction to grow into a deep respectful caring relationship…even couples that know each other for decades then choose not to be together…
Relationships come in so many shades and aspects…however a V or P break is not a heart break:)
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Thank you for reading.